Sunday, January 31, 2021

Transitions

 In our county this school year, we have the option for students to attend school in-person the traditional way, or to complete their assignments online virtually.  Students can switch their option to attend traditional or virtual school at the beginning of each nine-week period.  Since we started school later than normal (on September 8th), we just completed the second nine weeks on Friday.  Therefore, tomorrow we start our third quarter. 


Now, in my school (the high school), we allow students to become virtual at any point they want to.  This gets them out of the crowded classrooms and allows the remaining students to spread out a bit more to lessen the chances of quarantining, etc.  However, if a high school student was virtual, he or she can only return to the traditional setting at the beginning of a nine-week period or if the student is failing and the principal makes the student return to traditional learning.  I teach the virtual and traditional students so if a traditional student became a virtual student in the middle of any given week, I am still going to be their teacher and I will handle all of their lessons online.  It seemed overwhelming at the beginning of the school year, but I feel very comfortable with it now.  It also makes for an easy transition if or when that student returns to the traditional setting (ie, I already know where they'd sit in the classroom, I already have their grades, etc.).  


At my sons' school (the elementary school), students have to choose the virtual or traditional path and have to remain that way until the nine weeks ends. This is because at their school, some teachers teach the traditional students and some teach the virtual students.  Since the beginning of the school year, my sons have utilized the virtual option.  My mother-in-law watches them during the day and conducts their school work with them and makes sure that they attend their Zoom meetings, etc.  At this halfway point in the school year, though, we have made the decision to switch them back to traditional learning. 


A number of things went into our decision.  I do feel as though they need the interactions with their peers.  It's nice to have all three kids around each other during the day, and they can get along well together but I think there's something special about getting to hang around people in one's own age group.  I think my third grader needs to run around with third grade friends at PE, and my first grader needs to make some first grade friends, etc.  My husband and I have paid attention to the Covid cases in our area and are seeing the decline in the Christmas spike, so we feel safe in sending them back to the traditional school setting.  Also, Avery is in the middle of potty training and has kind of had to fit her own schedule into the Zoom call and academic schedule of her brothers.  I think by sending them back to school, she will get more one-on-one attention and this will aid in her potty training efforts.  I also want to relieve my mother-in-law of some of the stress that comes with being the designated adult in charge of the virtual learning of two children.  Although she says she enjoyed re-learning their topics, I do feel as though it put a lot of extra pressure on her. 


I feel very much at peace with our decision and I do hope that it works out as well as I'd like.  Last week, I engaged in a multi-day and several hour communication ordeal in trying to get Michael's medical plan sent to the school in order for him to even be able to attend.  I also had to buy a few extra school supplies to supplement the supplies they needed while virtual learning. Just this morning, I finished up assembling their backpacks and their textbooks and all of the medical supplies for the nurses and teachers. I ordered some plastic water bottles (since the water fountains are turned off), and some mask-lanyards from Amazon in order to assist with the mask wearing at school and the hopes of not losing (too many) masks. :)  This is the world we live in now and I guess I need to fully embrace it.  I am at peace and I am content and confident.  I can't help but feel anything else other than this is God's will and He will bless it. 



Until Next Time, 

Much Love, Reba



Monday, January 25, 2021

Hitting My Stride

It's taken me many years to get here and I know that I'm not finished yet.  By that I mean that it's taken me quite a while to fully understand myself and know what things I'm comfortable doing and what things I can pass on and learn to be okay with.  I don't have to do all things and participate in all things in order to be my best self.  Some things are worth passing on and other things are worth pursuing and I'm finally reaching the point where I am understanding which side of the line I fall on when it comes to certain things. Some of these things are miniscule and superficial.  Other things are more important and visible. 


Superficially, let's take shoes for instance.  I like the idea of pointy toe shoes and wedge booties. However, I have really come to understand myself enough to know that these shoe types don't work with me, and if they don't work with me then they work against me and I don't have time for that.  For example, I LOVE the look of these booties.  But I know that I will perpetually struggle to find the right outfit to wear them with which means they'll sit in my closet unworn for years until I'm ready to part with them.  

I also like the idea of the hidden wedge bootie, but a 4" heel is really just too much for me, and now I know this and can live with the fact that I wouldn't feel comfortable enough to wear these outside the house. 

I am much more comfortable in flats and will happily wear a pair of flats or pretty flip flops every single day since I know that it's right up my alley and fits my personal style. 


Moving on to clothes. 

I also love the idea of a flippy skirt, but I know that I'd never actually wear it because I'd struggle to find the right top and would feel like I exhausted the outfit after one wear.  How often can you wear a patterned flippy skirt before it becomes too noticeable?  Once a week?  Twice a month?  See??? This struggle of trying to figure out when to wear an outfit bears a load of stress I don't want to hang onto. 


Also... rompers and jumpsuits. I love the look of them, but as someone with a long torso, there's no guaranteeing that the midsection of the outfit would be long enough.  This renders them too much of a risk to pursue.   


These are just random items that came to mind.  These are things I would've bought in the past and then kicked myself for because I would find that I never felt comfortable enough to wear them.  I don't think this comes from insecurity; I think it comes from knowing more about my personal style. 


I have honed my personal decor style over time as well, and when I make a purchase that falls into this style, I don't feel bothered by it at all.  Rather I feel excited and at peace.  That's how I felt when I bought this comforter set yesterday.  Number one, it was half off so there's something to be said about jumping on a sale when I see it.  Number two, it fit in perfectly with an aesthetic I've been dreaming of for a guest room.  In our beach cottage that was destroyed by Hurricane Michael, we had a bedroom called the Dot Room.  This room used to have curtains that had dots all over them, and a fun brightly colored bedframe and blanket.  It's my dream to create a guest room in a future beach house that pays homage to the Dot Room.  When I saw this comforter set while browsing Target yesterday, I jumped at the chance to kick start the design aesthetic of this room by grabbing this blanket set and holding onto it until time to use.  


I also have learned more about who I am over the 2020 year.  I gave up social media in the summertime.  I haven't been on Instagram since June and I haven't logged onto Facebook since late summer or early fall (I can't remember exactly when I stopped logging in but it's been months and months).  Giving up social media and the strain that it caused was SO FREEING.  It's pretty common sense to think that my opinion isn't necessarily going to be the magical sway that someone else needs in order to change their own opinion.  Reading someone differing opinion doesn't make me change my opinion to fall in line with theirs.  Therefore, spending time reading through emotionally hazardous posts does nothing except rob my time and my well-being.  Sure there are bright spots of social media like keeping up with family members and offering words of encouragement (and receiving words of encouragement).  However, there are other avenues to pursue those bright spots and it doesn't have to be focused around mainstream media. 


A long time ago, I gave up trying to fit inside the typical mold of what a person of a certain age should watch on TV etc.  So many of the coworkers and peers around me were entranced in prime time TV and I felt like I needed to watch the shows too but eventually decided that keeping up with so many shows on such a strict schedule and filling my mind with the non-peaceful storylines was becoming too much.  Getting rid of cable helped with this.  But even after that, I had to make myself filter the shows I'd watch on streaming services because so many of them are filled with story lines of chaos and deceit and ill gotten gain and terror. It's not worth it to spend my time on those things.  Instead, I choose to watch shows that I know will end well. This means watching a lot of the same shows over and over and honestly, I really don't mind doing that.   


I've also honed my parenting style (for this current season that I'm in).  When I feel peace about something, I know it.  When I feel like I'm pressuring myself to do exactly what other parents of similarly aged children are doing, I know to resist the urge to "keep up with the Joneses" and return to my own parenting style.  This helps tremendously with keeping a clear mind and being able to see directly in front of me instead of veering off my path by trying to look all around me at what others are doing.  


I know I still have a long way to go and the truth is, there's probably no real end to learning about oneself.  However, I am amazed at how much better I feel as a person when I follow the path that I feel God has put me on, and when I stick to what I know rather than trying to buy & become someone I'm not. 


This was a very random post, but I guess it was what my heart needed to write. 


Until Next Time, 

Much Love, Reba

Wednesday, January 13, 2021

Let's Look-- Coffee Bars

Today I'm linking up with Erika and Shay for the monthly "Let's Look" series!  This month's topic is all about coffee bars!



My coffee bar is located in my dining room.  (This Keurig was a Prime Day find from 2019, and it's currently on sale again right now). Above it, I've hung up some canvas prints of Washington state that I took a couple summers ago. 



Next to the coffee maker is my mug holder from Costco!  I love this mug holder so much.  Fun coffee mugs are my thing, and I love seeing them all on display!



Here's the view from the kitchen side of the dining room.  I love having the coffee area next to the big window. 



I keep my coffee in the upper cabinet of my pantry.  I use the reusable k-cups for cost savings. 



I drink my coffee black, so I get serious about it and buy my coffee grounds from Costco in the bulk size packaging!



At work, I have a little coffee area set up in the back of my classroom by my desk.  I keep a couple different flavors of K-cups at school since it's easier to add a K-cup into the Keurig in between classes, rather than making a reusable filled with coffee grounds. My current favorite is the Southern Pecan flavor by Green Mountain Coffee.  (I found it at Walmart). 




And that's it!  Making a cup of coffee is one of my favorite parts about the morning, and it's certainly a treat to be able to make some cups at work during the school day too!


Until Next Time, 
Much Love, Reba



Saturday, January 9, 2021

Noah is 7!

Noah woke up today as a 7 year old! He's spunky and sweet with an easy smile. He's doing a fantastic job being a first grader especially a virtual one! He loves to play outside & can also easily entertain himself with toys in his imaginary world.  He plays well with others and can be perfectly content playing alone. He's very creative and currently likes drawing and creating abstract art (by rearranging his toys to represent other things etc.). He thrives with compliments and likes to know someone is always nearby. He's the perfect middle child that this family needed. 


He still loves all things garbage truck, school bus, and rescue vehicles. In fact, his party theme today was "school bus!" 






He chose apples, Oreo Thins, and Ritz crackers for party snacks in addition to his cake. 


We played inflatable bowling...



And tic-tac-toe / checkers...


And bean bag toss! 



For birthday dinner, he chose takeout pizza. We had a great day!


Happy Birthday, Noah! I love you! And I love being your mommy! I'm so glad God created you & put you in this family. I pray you seek Him earnestly & always. His way is best. Always keep your spunk and your joy. These things are so uniquely "you." Love, Mom



Until Next Time,

Much Love, Reba


Friday, January 8, 2021

Friday Favorites 01.08.21

 Today I'm linking up with Andrea and Erika for Friday Favorites.  




This week, Avery found some Frozen stickers and gave herself a little makeover. :)



Michael was pleased to show Gigi that the new shorts she bought him fit very well!  Right now he's using them as night-shorts since it's too cold outside to wear them during the day.  However, later on this spring and into summer, these will be used often!


Santa brought both boys a National Geographic Dinosaur Fossils kit, so Noah and Avery were working on Noah's set this past weekend. 


She thought it was hilarious that I overlaid some of my dark brown hair over her light blonde hair!


These days since I'm wearing a mask most of the day (unless I'm in my classroom alone), I choose to accessorize with big earrings.  These are part of a set on Amazon that Michael gave me for Christmas!
They're very lightweight and make a big statement. 


Michael (and little sister helper!) conducted an experiment this week for one of Michael's virtual classes!  


We are blessed with some AWESOME sunrise views in our backyard.  This was a very "wintery" version one day this week!


When cousins come to play, rolling down the big hill in Grandma's front yard is a must!




Until Next Time, 
Much Love, Reba

Saturday, January 2, 2021

Selfie Selections: Toddler Edition

Avery likes to sequester my phone to take selfies. Here's a rendition from the past few weeks. 










These are sweet days & memories!

Until Next Time,
Much Love, Reba


Friday, January 1, 2021

2021... So Far

Although 2021 rolled in fairly unannounced since we live in a rural area with few fireworks (assisted by the addition of heavy rain at midnight), I'm not upset by this at all.  The kids didn't even ask if they could stay up late or anything. We all said Happy New Year's Eve before tucking them in, and we talked about how we'd wake up to a new day, a new month, and a new year. 

Avery led the 2021 awakenings at 6:21 (which is sleeping in!) and then also woke up her brothers (oops). Because it was still raining, it made for a nice, slow morning. We went to Aaron's mom's house around noon to steam some clams her family overnighted from Washington state. The boys liked them this time around. After we returned home, Avery & I took a nap in her room which is the darkest room in the house and makes for a great nap spot. I did some lesson planning when I woke, and Aaron cooked a fantastic Hungarian chicken and rice dish for dinner. 

I am hoping for cooler temperatures soon. We spent December in the 40s most of the time, but we welcomed in January with 70s today. This is annoying to me. :)

We ended our evening by playing Dos (a variant of Uno) and are about to tuck the kids in bed. 





Aaron & I plan to watch some episodes of Top Gear (the old original episodes with the hosts of the current series Grand Tour) on Amazon Prime. Tip: if you're going to watch the series, stick with the "specials." 

Welcome, 2021. Here's hoping the year is smoother and less scary than 2020. 

Until Next Time,
Much Love, Reba